My First Place: Fact or Fiction?
If you watched our episode debut Sunday on HGTV you may be wanting to
know just how much of it really happened and what was scripted. In all
fairness, there's no way you can accurately sum up a first time home
buyer's experience in a 30 minute television show and I understand the
network's reasoning for doing some of the things they had to do. With
that being said there was definitely a skewed portrayal of what really
went down...
First and foremost, the hardest part of the whole thing was going on the
show and having to say negative things about someone's home. Some of
the houses we looked at weren't right for us but it doesn't mean they
weren't right for someone else. For example, we toured one house where
the kitchen was next to the laundry room and I made a comment about "our
clothes smelling like grease." What? That doesn't even make sense or
accurately reflect how I felt about that, I think these soundbites are
just added for extra affect. I also felt horribly when the comment about
all of the kitchens and bathrooms looking like they were built in "1973
or something" was made. Some of the kitchens and bathrooms needed
updating but I didn't think they were as bad as we had to make them out
to be. On top of all of that the owners graciously gave up their home
for most of the day so we could film there and we really didn't want to
say anything negative about their house.
Believe it or not, we were not concerned with finding a home that would
be close to the Navy Stadium for tailgates, had large closets for my
shoe "collection" or in Admiral Heights in general. Don't get me wrong,
Admiral Heights is a lovely community and a place where we could
definitely be happy to live but it wasn't a must have neighborhood that
the show made it out to be. HGTV loved the military aspect and wanted
that to be a huge part of our story so they really scripted that whole
we want to live in Admiral Heights part "we wouldn't need a designated
driver" or "I can practically see our stadium seats from this house"
isn't how we felt...at all. We knew what our budget was and we were only
comfortable spending so much money therefore our wish list was small,
we wanted 3 to 4 bedrooms, a basement or a garage and a fence if we were
really lucky! That was it, we knew the challenges we'd face with trying
to find a single family home in Annapolis with a small budget and we
were open minded to any neighborhood, not just Admiral Heights. I think
the part of the show that bothered me the most was that Matthew appeared
to be the one making all of the decisions about the home buying process
and I'm just over here making comments about shoe closets. In reality,
Matthew and I were a team and we made decisions together that we felt
made the most sense.
You also may have noticed that throughout the show we wore solid and
bright colors. We were given a strict dress code which was difficult to
follow, especially because they didn't want you to accessorize and
really preferred very basic outfits. It was difficult to find so many
brightly colored shirts that didn't have a pattern on them-and then to
not be allowed to add a necklace or something (I did sneak one in for a
scene though). Some days we would shoot multiple scenes and just have a
change of clothes that we could quickly throw on so it would look like
it was a different day. I felt like I was running out of clothes, one
day I was completely ill prepared when I found out last minute we needed
three outfit changes! I quickly rummaged through my closet in desperate
search of anything that was brightly colored without a pattern! That
was hard! Especially, since we filmed during winter where the majority
of your closet contains darker colored clothes! And we couldn't wear
black clothes, my favorite! They're so slimming which is great,
especially since the camera definitely makes you look bigger than you
are...or maybe we're just fat, ha!
All and all, I think this was an exciting opportunity and it gave us
more of an insight as to how these "reality" shows are created. It's
definitely weird watching yourself on television and over analyzing the
comments you make...comments that may or may not have been scripted.
I've been asked by a few people if we would do it again and I'm not
really sure, Matthew on the other hand says yes, as long as we're paid,
ha! It was a huge undertaking, months and months of filming (since we
pretty much only filmed on the weekends) and it was definitely more work
than we imagined! We have a newfound appreciation for the entertainment
industry...although it sure would have been nice to have a hair
dresser, makeup artist and someone to pick out our wardrobe on set :)
What did you all think about our show?